Wednesday, 21 March 2012

She's one of those!


Whenever I travel through the underground I see lots of diversity and I think diversity is beautiful, something we should embrace, rather than target and treat as something negative.  I’m sure most of you have seen ‘My Tram Experience’ on YouTube, the questionably drunk lady shouting abuse at people on the Tram because of their skin was absolutely shocking. The video to me highlights that racism still exists, yes we are now in 2012 and racism.. still.. exists..

I’m not necessarily talking about open racism – as people have learnt how unacceptable that is (to discriminate based on colour). Instead it seems as though ‘contemporary racism’ has emerged where it has become coupled with culture, it is subtle but it is still there.  Colour is associated with culture, negative attributes are paired with certain skin colours and often people are judged as ‘one of them’ or as an outsider.
We all go through different experiences and everyone is different.. We are just all human, the same limbs, internal organs and all of that! So why does racism still exist?

I am aware of incidences of discrimination occurring to those close to me. For example, a dear friend of mine wears a hijab, she moved to this country a couple of years ago and has since been the victim of discrimination, she has been spat on and shouted at in the street. However, If you got to know this girl you would soon realise she is one of the most well read people you will come across, someone who has been through a lot and still maintains an effortless smile.  There is a lot more to a person than just the colour of their skin.

I too have experienced various forms of prejudice and discrimination. Let me expand... I have been called a Paki at the bus stop, been told to ‘go back home’ by a random man in the park when all I was trying to do was soak up the sun and eat ice cream! I have been pointed at and told ‘You look like Slum Dog Millionaire’ by a drunken fool and have been told to hurry up ‘popadom’ by a strange man on the bus...
But more recently there seems to have been a surge in the popularity of shows on Islam and Extremism. For example, Proud and Prejudice and Stacey Dooley on Luton.  Coupled with this I started watching ‘Make  Bradford British’ on channel 4... It led me to think about the topic of prejudice and indeed the P word.
The word Paki to me, is something that brings along with it lots of negative connotations. I cannot understand how people that I know very well think it is an acceptable term that can be used to refer to someone with brown skin or to refer to the corner shop as the ‘Paki shop.’ It means more than just a shortened abbreviation of the word Pakistan, it has become an umbrella term of which to group those from the asian ethic minority.
Often I have found that I have been in a group of people who have out rightly said something quite racist, something that would apply to me or my family had I not be their friends but I always get ‘oh it’s okay because you’re different.’ Well what do you mean I’m different? Are you saying that because I dress in a westernised manner or talk in a specific way and go to certain places? Would I be thought of differently if I decided to dress in a more traditional sense?
I’ve also heard... ‘I’m not racist, I’ve got a black friend.’ Erm..  I hate to break it to you but... that little token of a friendship does not mean you are exempt..

Colour should not be something that enters our mind straight away. We are all the same fundamentally! Just different cultures beliefs and views which are all internal. So think twice before you judge someone based on the colour of their skin, there is often more to a person than you may think. We all need to adjust our mind set and slowly but surely (perhaps rather idealistically) this concept of racism will disappear... 




We should all bring back a little bit of Jamiroquai into our lives... 




With thanks to the one with the chickens x